{"id":649,"date":"2010-05-04T12:09:51","date_gmt":"2010-05-04T19:09:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.theshowtampa.com\/?p=649"},"modified":"2010-05-04T12:09:51","modified_gmt":"2010-05-04T19:09:51","slug":"florida-grandmother-slaps-granddaughter-for-mouthing-off","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blog.theshowtampa.com\/?p=649","title":{"rendered":"FLORIDA: Grandmother Slaps Granddaughter For Mouthing Off"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>Largo, Florida &#8212;\u00a0 The arrest of a 73-year-old grandmother has some asking&#8230; where do you draw the line when it comes to punishing unruly teens?<\/p>\n<p>Theresa Collier says she&#8217;s never been in trouble her entire life, but this week, the grandmother found herself behind bars in the Pinellas County Jail after slapping her granddaughter for swearing at her.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My heart&#8217;s going like this.\u00a0 I just thought I was going to die.\u00a0 I wanted to crawl in a hole,&#8221; Collier told 10 Connects, as she broke down in tears.<\/p>\n<p>Collier says she invited her 18-year-old granddaughter, Felicia Collier, to her house\u00a0so she could use her computer to do homework.<\/p>\n<p>Felicia is finishing her senior year online after getting kicked out of Catholic school in Massachusetts, Collier explained.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;She said F-off to a nun!\u00a0 I would just crawl into a hole,&#8221; said Collier.<\/p>\n<p>On Tuesday, the newly turned 18-year-old did not want to obey her commands to complete her assignments.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;She kept repeating the F-word to me, about the whole family.\u00a0 She just went on and on and I just got so upset, I got up and slapped her across the face,&#8221; she told 10 Connects, &#8220;She grabbed\u00a0my wrists and I couldn&#8217;t get out of it and she let one go and she punched me in the cheek here.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Felicia\u00a0then called police to her grandmother&#8217;s home, but even the teenager couldn&#8217;t have imagined what happened next.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The two officers came to each side of me and before I know it, they have my arms and they said, &#8216;You&#8217;re under arrest,&#8217; and they cuff me,&#8221; Collier said tearfully.<\/p>\n<p>Despite Felicia Collier&#8217;s\u00a0attempts to convince police not to arrest her grandmother, the officers\u00a0took the woman into custody.<\/p>\n<p>Theresa Collier\u00a0describes the next 24 hours in jail as the worst hours of her life.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I went to medical, they take my blood pressure, it was sky\u00a0high and he says, my God!\u00a0 And I said, &#8216;Can you blame my blood pressure?&#8217; &#8221; said Collier.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My wife of 52 years went to Catholic Parochial school, went to church, she&#8217;s a good strong Catholic and raised four kids and no one ever spoke to her like that,&#8221; said her husband, Walter Collier.<\/p>\n<p>While Collier&#8217;s arrest\u00a0seems out of line,\u00a0under the law, a battery was committed.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Legally she&#8217;s 18-years-old, so while I understand the difference between corporal punishment on a child, disciplining your child for using poor language, this is an 18-year-old child,&#8221; said Lt. Mike Loux, with the Largo Police Department.<\/p>\n<p>Lt. Loux says his department has a mandatory arrest policy when it comes to domestic violence calls, so someone had to go to jail.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If an officer on scene finds probable cause to arrest a person, because they&#8217;ve committed domestic battery, then our policy is a mandatory arrest of that person,&#8221; said Lt. Loux, &#8220;The discretion does not come because the victim does not want to prosecute.\u00a0 It doesn&#8217;t come because the victim has remorse for calling police.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Felicia Collier was in court on Wednesday for her grandmother&#8217;s first appearance and signed a form to not only not prosecute, but allow contact with her grandmother.<\/p>\n<p>This still does not change the pending charges against Collier, who now has to wait for her next day in court and whether prosecutors will pursue the charge against her.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I think it&#8217;s ridiculous.\u00a0 We&#8217;re hurt so bad, I&#8217;m so scared she&#8217;s going to have a heart attack or a stroke over this.\u00a0 She doesn&#8217;t sleep, she bursts into tears and I&#8217;m almost doing it now,&#8221; said Walter Collier.<\/p>\n<p>They haven&#8217;t spoken to their granddaughter since the incident.<\/p>\n<p>Further complicating things, the couple only lives in Largo part-time.\u00a0\u00a0They have plane tickets to head\u00a0home to New Hampshire next week and are not unsure if it&#8217;s a good idea they return\u00a0since Collier has yet to have her next day in court set.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What are they going to do?\u00a0 Send me back in,&#8221; said Collier, pointing toward the\u00a0jail.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Largo, Florida &#8212;\u00a0 The arrest of a 73-year-old grandmother has some asking&#8230; where do you draw the line when it comes to punishing unruly teens? 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