Secret #1: Enthusiasm
Quick! When was the last time you initiated sex? You’re asking, “Who cares who makes the first move?” He cares. Initiating is a clear way of proving your lust.
Secret #2: Variety
The problem with being human is that we are creatures of habit. Once we find something we like, we return to it again and again until — poof! We hate it. It’s hard to stop doing what once worked, but stop we must, or all those moves — kiss, kiss, rub, rub, suck, suck — will suddenly make you cringe with their familiarity. “My husband focuses on three things: right boob, left boob and crotch,” one woman complains. “I try to let him know that it doesn’t work because it’s always the same.”
Secret #3: Adventure
You need to do something very, very bad and very, very bold occasionally.
Secret #4: Generosity
I’m talking about a specific kind of generosity: giving and receiving oral sex. For all our sexual sophistication, this act still has the power to make us squirmy. People either want more of it or don’t want it at all or want to receive but not give it or — you get the picture.
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